Say Yes! to Loving & Leading the Flow of Your Life — Transcript

Say yes to a loving and leading the flow of your life. Say no to giving up on your life. Say no to giving up on your life. And when you are not loving and leading the flow of your life, essentially that’s what you’re doing. Say no to giving up on your life. Let’s say that again. When you’re not loving and leading the flow of your life, being responsible for your life and loving being responsible for your life, and paying attention to what’s needed for your life, in essence, when you’re not doing that, you’re giving up on your life for those moments. You’re either taking a break, taking a vacation from being responsible for your life. Well, hello? Who’s taking care of you during that vacation? Who’s loving your life during that vacation? Who’s leading your life during that vacation. And that vacation can be… I’m not going to put out examples. If you don’t get what I’m talking about by “vacation,” send me a question. I’ll give you some examples.

Say yes to loving and leading the flow of your life. Say no to giving up on your life. Your life is precious. It needs a lover. You got to be the lover for your life. It needs the one to take care of it. Your life needs you to take care of you. No one else can do it. Your life needs a leader. You got to be the leader for your life. Who on this planet… What it makes sense for you to delegate you’re leading your life to. No, no one can be inside your head and lead your attention. No, no one can be inside of you and lead your actions. You got to be the leader of your life. If you want a great life, if you want an effective life, if you want happy life — say yes to loving and leading the flow of your life. Okay, now you got life situations going on. It may happen that they are challenging, that you don’t like, that are confusing, that are like ‘ooh’ maybe even extreme.

Let’s just stay with challenging. You lost your job. You got fired or laid off or your factory burnt down or some calamity happened. Well, that’s a challenging life situation to say the least. Or your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend of a long time just left you, rejected you. That’s a challenging life situation. Well, think of your own challenging, examples of your own challenging situations. Well, okay. Now, is that a reason to stop loving your life? No, you may not love what’s happening in your life situation, but  keep loving your life even in the challenging times. And I’m not talking… Don’t mix up loving your life with loving the story of your life. Loving your life is loving your aliveness in the moment, loving that you’re alive in this moment. Say yes to loving and leading the flow of your life. Especially in challenging situations, you’ve got to step up at the plate, and you’re challenged now because of the situation or you need a leader to meet this challenge. Well, who’s going to be that leader? It’s got to be you, unless you’re waiting for a white knight to come and save you or you’re waiting for someone else to take care of you. No! And if you’re not loving your life, if you’re not caring about your aliveness, loving your aliveness in those challenging moments, it’s going to be hard for you to balance and be a good leader for yourself.

Say yes to loving and leading the flow of your life in every moment, in every moment. If you’re not loving and leading your life, you’re… In those moments you’ve given up on your life in some way. Say no to giving up. Say no to giving up on loving and leading your life. Say no to giving up… Okay. Now, these are skills. The purpose of these classes are coaching classes. Okay, so what do you need to do… Do you get it? Do you get the principle? Do you get the skill? Well, you may not be highly skilled at saying yes to loving and leading the flow of your life. You may have patterns where you give up throughout your day when it gets challenging. Well, don’t put yourself down for your skill level. Notice it and commit to building your skill everyday. That’s the purpose of these classes, is to encourage you to grow your skills of loving and leading the flow of your life or whatever the focus of the class is. But this is a skill. This is a consciousness skill.

And if you’re a grown-up, this is the optimally functional consciousness to have, to be always every moment of the day in the good times and the bad times and the challenging times to be loving and leading the flow of your life, your aliveness, your very aliveness. Be the champion of your life. Say yes to learning, to learning how to love and lead the flow of your life. Say yes to noticing when you’ve given up on loving your life, when you’ve given up on leading your life and get back on the horse. Say yes to noticing when you’ve given up and re-balance and get back on your team. Get back being the champion for your life and loving and leading your life. That’s what this class is.